Memory Cafe
Offering joy, support and connection to those living in the world of memory loss.
A Welcoming Space for Connection and Support
Our Memory Café offers joy, support, and connection to those with memory challenges, their care partners, and loved ones in a warm and welcoming environment. It’s a place where individuals with memory loss and their care partners can laugh, learn, and stay socially engaged with others who share similar experiences, fostering a sense of community and belonging. Caregiver support to lessen isolation and provide a sense of connectedness is at the heart of our mission, ensuring that no one feels alone on this journey.


Dates
4th Thursdays of the Month
TIME
1-1:20pm | Memory Motion with Amanda
1:25-2pm | Learning Lounge & Activity Hour
2-3pm | Social Spot & Refreshments
LOCATION
Crosspoint Alliance Church – 600 NE 8th St, Perham
Memory Café Brings People Together
Join us monthly for engaging topics and activities—sign up today!
April 24 - How Did We Know?
A panel of spouses will share their personal experiences, discussing the early signs they noticed that indicated their loved one may be experiencing memory loss. Panelists include: Patsy Holper, Carol Wilkowski, Mary Karkela, and Donna Gill.
May 22 - Asking for Help and Family Involvement
Identifying caregiver burnout, getting family involved in care plans and how to respond to phrases like, “How can we help?” or “Let us know what you need.” Presented by Sue Sailer and Laura Drummond.
June 26 - Responding to Dementia Related Behaviors
How to handle behavior changes and challenges in your journey with memory loss. Presented by Perham Health’s Dr. Jennifer Stong and Pam Tyler, RN.
July 24 - Making Safety Decisions
Learn how to navigate dementia-related safety concerns, including driving, firearms, tools, and home hazards, to protect your loved ones and maintain independence. Presented by Perham Police Officer Wayne Striebel.
August 28 - Proactive Planning
Learn how to enhance safety for individuals living at home with dementia by utilizing alarms, emergency notification systems, Smart 911, and community support. Presented by Lakes Home Solutions, Rob Hendrickson.
September 25 - Living Wills and Power of Attorney
Understanding their importance in dementia care, ensuring legal and medical decisions align with your loved one’s wishes. Presented by Sam Felix.
2025 Memory Cafe Proudly Sponsored By:
The Terry Karkela Family
Have questions about Memory Cafe?
Here are some FAQs with details on what to expect and how to get involved!
Do participants need to acknowledge that they have dementia?
No. They will not be asked if they have a diagnosis. The environment is geared to the comfort and success of people with a wide range of cognitive capacities. The focus is socializing and creative exploration, activities common to all of us.
What disease stage is the Elevate Memory Cafe geared to?
The Elevate Memory Cafe is appropriate for anyone who can negotiate the physical space (which is fully wheelchair accessible) and enjoy being in a group of people. A care partner should stay with anyone who needs assistance with ambulation, medications and/or using the restroom. Staff and volunteers will NOT be able to help with these personal care needs.
Is the Elevate Memory Cafe for care partners, too?
Yes! Participants in Memory Cafes around the country often say that their favorite moments come when the person with dementia is enlivened by social interaction or arts activities, creating a sense of reconnection and closeness. Also, Memory Cafés give care partners a chance to meet and socialize with other care partners.
We do require care partners to stay with their loved ones during the entire session. Memory Cafe is not an alternative for respite care or Adult Day Services.
Could I bring a group of people from a day program or residential facility to participate?
Space is limited but we welcome everyone. Care partners are required to stay with the group and remain within the staffing and safety compliance of your normal programming. The Memory Cafe is staffed solely by volunteers. Please contact Katie at katie.murdock@perhamhealth.org or 218-347-1974 to discuss bringing a group.
What takes place during the Elevate Memory Cafe?
Monthly programming will be a mix of educational opportunities, social activities, and other engaging content such as introduction to arts, music and more.