Memory Cafe
Offering joy, support and connection to those living in the world of memory loss.
A Welcoming Space for Connection and Support
Our Memory Café offers joy, support, and connection to those with memory challenges, their care partners, and loved ones in a warm and welcoming environment. It’s a place where individuals with memory loss and their care partners can laugh, learn, and stay socially engaged with others who share similar experiences, fostering a sense of community and belonging. Caregiver support to lessen isolation and provide a sense of connectedness is at the heart of our mission, ensuring that no one feels alone on this journey.
Dates
4th Thursdays of the Month
TIME
1-1:20pm | Memory Motion with Amanda
1:25-2pm | Learning Lounge & Activity Hour
2-3pm | Social Spot & Refreshments
LOCATION
Crosspoint Alliance Church – 600 NE 8th St, Perham
Memory Café Brings People Together
Join us monthly for engaging topics and activities—sign up today!
August 27 - Summer Beach Party
Let’s celebrate the summer! Join us for a beach-themed party with games, snacks, and a musical sing along with the talented Leslie Baumann. Wear your best Hawaiian shirt or beach accessories, and let’s enjoy the oldies that we know and love.
September 24 - Grieving the Changes
When a loved one is living with dementia, families often experience ambiguous loss—a type of grief that occurs when someone is physically present but gradually changing in ways that can feel like losing them bit by bit. This session will explore how ambiguous grief affects individuals and families emotionally, relationally, and in their sense of identity as roles shift over time. Presented by Wendy Tabor-Buth, LBSW from Vivie.
October 22 - Creating Purpose Every Day
Discover how giving a person living with memory loss a meaningful “job” can foster confidence, independence, and joy. This discussion explores simple, purposeful activities that help people continue contributing, doing what they love, and maintaining a sense of accomplishment while focusing on abilities rather than limitations. Discussion facilitated by Mary Karkela.
November 19 - When Is It Time For More Support?
Learn about valuable community resources available to support caregivers and those living with memory loss. We’ll also explore practical tips for recognizing when it’s time to seek additional help and support beyond what a caregiver can provide. In recognition of Alzheimer’s Awareness Month in November, wear purple and show your support for those affected by Alzheimer’s and dementia! Presented by Rob Hendrickson, Lakes Home Solutions.
December 17 - Holiday Party!
Celebrate the season with music entertainment, delicious treats, fun games, and plenty of time to visit with friends old and new. This welcoming holiday celebration offers a relaxed opportunity for us to enjoy the spirit of the season.
January 28 - Taboo Topics
Some of the most important questions about dementia are often the hardest to ask. This open and supportive discussion provides a safe, judgment-free space to explore the taboo topics of living with and caring for someone with memory loss. Questions may be written down anonymously and placed in the question box before the conversation begins, giving everyone the opportunity to ask what’s on their mind. Presented by Pam Tyler, RN.
February 25 - What's Your Plan B?
Many people caring for someone with memory loss don’t have a Plan B if they are suddenly unable to provide care. This supportive discussion offers an opportunity to explore backup plans, hear what others have put in place, and share ideas that can help you prepare for the unexpected. Discussion facilitated by Carol Wilkowski.
March 25 - Travel: Anywhere from 1-1,000 Miles
Whether you’re traveling one mile to the grocery store or 1,000 miles on vacation, planning ahead can make the journey smoother for everyone. This discussion will cover practical tips, helpful strategies, and important considerations for traveling with someone living with memory loss, helping you feel more prepared and confident wherever the road leads. Presented by Abby Husar & Maggie Ness from Memory Café of the Red River Valley.
Memory Cafe Proudly Sponsored By:
The Terry Karkela Family
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Have questions about Memory Cafe?
Here are some FAQs with details on what to expect and how to get involved!
Do participants need to acknowledge that they have dementia?
No. They will not be asked if they have a diagnosis. The environment is geared to the comfort and success of people with a wide range of cognitive capacities. The focus is socializing and creative exploration, activities common to all of us.
What disease stage is the Elevate Memory Cafe geared to?
The Elevate Memory Cafe is appropriate for anyone who can negotiate the physical space (which is fully wheelchair accessible) and enjoy being in a group of people. A care partner should stay with anyone who needs assistance with ambulation, medications and/or using the restroom. Staff and volunteers will NOT be able to help with these personal care needs.
Is the Elevate Memory Cafe for care partners, too?
Yes! Participants in Memory Cafes around the country often say that their favorite moments come when the person with dementia is enlivened by social interaction or arts activities, creating a sense of reconnection and closeness. Also, Memory Cafés give care partners a chance to meet and socialize with other care partners.
We do require care partners to stay with their loved ones during the entire session. Memory Cafe is not an alternative for respite care or Adult Day Services.
Could I bring a group of people from a day program or residential facility to participate?
Space is limited but we welcome everyone. Care partners are required to stay with the group and remain within the staffing and safety compliance of your normal programming. The Memory Cafe is staffed solely by volunteers. Please contact Katie at katie.murdock@perhamhealth.org or 218-347-1974 to discuss bringing a group.
What takes place during the Elevate Memory Cafe?
Monthly programming will be a mix of educational opportunities, social activities, and other engaging content such as introduction to arts, music and more.